What does “I Love You” mean?

Abnormal psychology has been one of the most interesting, fulfilling, and revealing courses I have ever taken. Today, the professor mentioned that one person’s “I love you” may mean totally different than another person’s “I love you”.

Simply speaking, one person’s capacity to love another may be as deep as an ocean, while another person’s capacity to love another as shallow as a pond. I never really asked someone “What do you mean, you love me”? I always assumed that “I love you” meant you are and will continue to be respectful, kind, gentle, loving to the person you are saying this to.

I think I finally understand why some people say “I love you” and then turn around and act in ways that are the exact opposite of love. Like my professor states “some men say “I love you” to simply get a female to take off her pants”.

SPOILED MILK !

Man, I nearly just gagged over drinking spoiled milk. Thank goodness I only took one big sip. It was more than enough.  I opened the fridge up to check the expiration date- it states "July 9". I have not a clue why it is already spoiled. Now, let's hope I don't get sick from it.

MySpace=MyMiracle

Hello Readers!

You must be at least a little surprised with the title of my entry today. A few weeks ago, my best friend found me through MySpace . She moved away to Florida during the end of high school. We kept in touch until freshmen year of college. I always had this hole in my heart because I never knew how her life was going or if she was even alive because the last letter I recieved from her was full or sorrow.

Through the years, I met and formed friendships with a handful of people whom I would classify under "really, really GOOD friends" category, along with regular "friends" but no one could replace her. I just never met someone else that fell into the "best friend" status. It may be odd for some of you, as some people I know just simply do not believe in the idea of a "best friend" or more commonly known as BFF.

Both of us had went through milestones in our lives yet when we finally spoke to each other on the phone- things were the same. It is as if she was with me all along. We did try to find each other through the years but failed. She did not really use email when I first started college. Although she is one of the brightest people I know, she chose not to get her college degree until now. And things have also changed drastically- she is now married with a child. Believe me, I was really shocked (in a good way of course).

Honestly, the afternoon I checked my MySpace and saw "________" wants to add you as a friend. I immediately knew it was her by just seeing her name, age, and location. I remember taking a deep breath not wanting another disappointment- and clicking on her pictures to make sure. And there she was- looking the same as I remembered her as. Then, I went back to read the message she sent me. First thing she said was in the context of "do you remember me.... you look the same!!!.....".

Having my best friend back in my life could not have come a better time. I truly thank God for the reconnection. No, I am not really religious by I do believe in God. Friendships are simply amazing. I never met someone as kind, a good judgement of character, and got along with as well as I do with her. Though you probably may never come across this page- I just want to tell the world "I am thankful for your presence and luv ya girl".